Look Abby12, it is important for your so called hubby to understand that with the way you are, you have given him a beautiful daughter he can send to tell you things like putting on your leggings.
But it sounds awful he sends your daughter to tell that to you! I am out of words to describe your husband.
For me I met with my husband at 26 years of age, I am now 32, I had an accident a year ago, but he cuddles me still like a baby, he loves me and stays by my side in whatever issue that comes.
I think if your husband is that shallow then, it's very horrible!