Hahahaha... Susan, my apologies but I had a hearty laugh while reading your post. The way you explain your problem is really hilarious. And your husband is such a doll, he has managed to take such good care of you. I do hope I get the chance to introduce your husband to mine. Hopefully, some of his good traits shall rub off on my husband and he shall start paying more attention to my needs. Now coming to the point, there is nothing new regarding your complaint about post-pregnancy weight issues. Most of us face this problem. It is rather difficult for us to lose weight after giving birth, and even after breastfeeding, we tend to put on. Now there are multiple reasons to it. One reason could be less sleep. Sleepless women tend to gain weight and scientific studies have proved this. Another reason could be stress as stress hormones instigate weight gain and it is likely for you to eat more when you are stressed. So I would suggest you first tackle these issues, get a good 7 to 8 hours of sleep everyday and avoid taking stress upon yourself (leave your work at the office). We shall get back in touch after a week and let me know if my advice has helped you in any way.
Looking forward to hearing from you.